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Our family has many difficulties that mostly relate to Amber and her Cerebral Palsy and other medical problems. Dystonia, doctors, medications and the associated conditions. But there are other family problems that compound our stress. Here I will attempt to write a blog that will keep concerned or interested parties up to date on our ability to find essential services for Amber and the family as a whole. I will try to keep this page updated but as time is at a premium and there are some personal issues that I would rather not post for all to see, it may not be as complete as I would like. I hope you understand that this is not done to garner sympathy but to both have a way for me to unload some of the things that are on my mind as well as possibly help others find answers in what we have done and avoid what has not worked. I would post to the forums for feedback but few use them. I have recently deleted the forums for lack of interest.

Also there are quite a few family members that have their concerns and this will also serve to inform them of some of what is happening. Though I will not disclose anything I feel of too personal a nature.


SITEMAP 

Alphabetical listing of most pages on this site: Exceptions will be state and county pages. Some are not linked from this sidebar but from within a page

The CP Links Page is where you will find most Federal, State and local County pages.

THE HOMEPAGE

WHAT IS CP
CEREBRAL PALSY

My attempt to clarify CP you may find the information provided by NINDS is more specific and detailed

TREATMENT of  CP
There are many different treatments and I only name those I am familiar with

Physical Therapy
How it is essential to maintain range of motion

Occupational Therapy
How it is essential to maintain quality of life

Speech Therapy
What I know through my experience By far not even close to what you should know

Medication and Orthotics
Again what I know through experience Much more can be had searching the net or talking with doctors and therapists

CP LINKS
To Federal, State, County, City / Town and School District WebPages. Health links and hopefully links to local disability sites and activity and events calendars just drill down to the page you want

Cerebral Palsy Glossary
Terms used when referring to items related to CP . Many of us may see these on a doctors report and not know what it really means.

More Information of CP provided by NINDS
Perhaps a bit more concise and informed than my attempt to tell of what CP is. 
What Causes Cerebral Palsy?
What are the Risk Factors?
Can Cerebral Palsy Be Prevented?
What Are the Different Forms?
What Other Conditions Are Associated With Cerebral Palsy?
How Does a Doctor Diagnose Cerebral Palsy?
How is Cerebral Palsy Managed?
What Specific Treatments Are Available?
Drug Treatments
Surgery
Orthotic Devices
Assistive Technology
Alternative Therapies
Are There Treatments for Other Conditions Associated with Cerebral Palsy?
Do Adults with Cerebral Palsy Face Special Health Challenges?
What Research Is Being Done?
Where can I get more information?

Specific Neurological Disorders
Many of these do not fall under the heading of CP but are disabilities nonetheless.

My take on the IEP, IDEA 2004 (Public Law 94-142 & Public Law 101-476), and the 504 plan.
In 1990, changes to Public Law 94-142 arrived through the Education of the Handicapped Act Amendments of 1990 (Public Law 101-476). Most apparent was the law’s name change – instead of the Education of the Handicapped Act, it is now called the Individuals with Disabilities Education Act. IDEA 2004

IEP overview
A Guide to the Individualized Education Program with sections highlighted and comments by me

504 plan & IDEA Q&A
Protecting Students and others with Disabilities also a list of accommodations and modifications as would relate to the school environment.  More on accommodations in the Parent and Educator Guide Appendix E

Parent & Educator Guide of 504 Plan concepts and real life accommodations. Drafted by the OSPI and 5 Puget Sound area School Districts but would be a valuable asset to any fighting for their child's 504 accommodations anywhere U.S.A. 

IDEA 2004 summary&
Title 1 IDEA as written (Public Law 94-142 &
Public Law 101-476) 
A lot of legalese and unless you are a lawyer or are looking for specific law probably will not be of much benefit. You will better spend your time reading the Parent and Educator Guide, the IEP overview and the 504 plan & IDEA Q&A

Washington State Chapter 392-172 WAC SPED special education and the IEP
This is Washington State law as regards the IEP and special education
Also a bit about our (current Nov 08) personal battle for Amber

MEMBER PAGES
Those who have joined with me to try to educate everyone of the trials of having a child with CP or other disability and where to find information

Pierce County Events
Local events for the disabled If you know of any let me know I'll post them here

CONTACT US

DONATIONS/GIFTS

AMBER'S STORY
Amber's story from birth to I started this website. Her continuing story is in the Blog

AMBER'S PARENTS
A bit about us and maybe you will get to know why we did what we did and continue to do what we do by knowing a bit about us.

Blog of Amber and Family
The continuing story of Amber and family updated as I have time.

SHARE YOUR STORY
This is different from the Forums as the Forums are where you would post questions and answers.
In the share your story section people like you will post their unique experiences and through what is said you may find you are not alone. You may also find a friend and someone you can relate to. And possibly a way to realize your own goals.

CP FAMILY LINKS
Websites created by people who have CP or someone in their family has CP. Net-etiquette applies. All sites are subject to approval. Banners and text allowed on these links.

NON CP RELATED
OTHER LINKS PAGES
Posted 1st come 1st served. We hope to have many of our friends  and supporters post their pages here. Net-etiquette applies. 
All sites are subject to approval. All Non-CP links are text only with a line or two of information of the link posted.
Please notify me of any broken links so I can remove or fix them. 

JOIN OUR NETWORK
Join with me in trying to educate the public of CP and other disabilities

WHY THIS SITE?
What motivated me to build this site

  CONTACT US
Direct your comments to Robert.

Robert wrote a Science Fiction trilogy while being laid up. It took 4 years to complete and he has for sale Book 1 of the trilogy HERE

He is awaiting editing and copyrights on books 2 & 3 before sending them to the publisher. Book 1 can stand alone and is a complete novel of 237 pages and 135,000+ words in PDF format.

Making Money Online (or not) 
What I've tried and what I believe. The things to watch out for.  Many with disabilities have a very difficult time working a 9 to 5 so working online is a viable alternative. However be wary of those who will take your money and not deliver any worthwhile information.

Other sites I have or to be more precise the wife has and I take care of.

www.tamicraft.com 

www.vintageslips4u.com

 

 

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June 6, 08 Tried to get a refill on Amber's muscle relaxer and valium and the primary doc said no. Apparently the neurologist said he didn't want her on those meds.

The thing is the meds he has prescribed do not work. Even increasing the dosage is not having any effect. The other meds were having an effect, albeit not total, it was helping but now they will no longer give them to Amber. What are we to do. Amber is in Pain and the meds they want her to take are not doing anything and the meds that work they will no longer prescribe.

We are back to square one as far as I'm concerned. At least as far as the meds go.

Amber is getting along with her psychiatrist and that seems to be working out but so far Amber has not shown any signs of a change of attitude. We have yet to get her the antidepressant I think that appointment is next week and they have yet to do the scan which I also think is next week. At any rate Amber is back in the same place she was months ago and now I have to decide whether to go over the doctors or let this game play out.

The Artane is having no effect. The baclophen is giving her headaches and we have stopped giving it to her as in her words "I have enough to deal with, I don't need migraines on top of it all. I can stop the headaches, so I don't want to take the Baclophen anymore." We agree.

The pain med prescribed by the Seattle Dr. is doing nothing.

Recently Amber witnessed an altercation in school and was brought in as a witness. She was asked to testify to what she saw. She apparently has a relationship or some form of friendship or liking or something with both of those involved and was really stressed about having to say anything about either. This got her Dystonia going real bad and Tami went down to the school to see what was up as Amber called her cousin about what was going on and the cousin called Tami as she felt she should know and Amber said it was OK, she just didn't want to talk with mom directly. Turns out Amber was not in trouble but the stress really got her Dystonia going. Tami had to take her out of school anyway for a Psychiatrist appointment and so did so a bit early. The psych. tried to get to the root of what was going on but was unable to. Amber now feels that she not only has no friends but will likely not be able to patch things up to the point of just being able to get along, cause she was forced to testify. At any rate Amber had a bad day on Wednesday the 4th.

June 12, 2008 Yesterday was a pretty good day. Not that Amber was not in pain, cause she was, but her visit to the psychiatrist that is dealing with Amber's depression made some things happen that have given us some hope. First he prescribed a new medication that is supposed to help with the depression as well as the Dystonia ( IMIPRAMINE ). We will have to give this some time to see if it will work or not, up to a month according to the psychiatrist, but we are hopeful.

But what has really made a difference is that this psychiatrist decided to allow Amber to continue taking Vicoden as needed for pain and to also allow her to take Valium up to 3 times per week when the Dystonia gets really bad. He cleared this with the Neurologist who had originally nixed the Valium and Vicoden. So now at least when she is in incredible pain and crying we have a way to relieve her suffering. We are so grateful to the psychiatrist to have gone to bat for Amber to at least in this small way allow us a way to help Amber get through the really tough times.

This is by no means a complete solution , not even close, but it does allow us to help Amber overcome the real bad times and as for the constant pain and Dystonia, well we can only hope this new drug has some effect where all the others haven't.

Another really great thing happened yesterday as well. When Tami returned from the Dr's appointment and logged onto her email she noticed that a very generous woman from Canada donated $100.00 to us. She was brought to tears by the generosity of this woman. No one has ever donated anything before and to receive so much from one person was overwhelming. It will certainly help us out and I intend to try to keep it in reserve just incase we are able to get the e-stem Amber needs but have to come up with some or all of the costs. I have said I will give 10% of all website earnings to charity and we will do this at the end of the year. We have decided for now that we will give to the Children's Therapy unit at Good Samaritan Hospital so they can help other children in need as they have helped Amber by loaning her an e-stem unit till we can afford to purchase one or the insurance caves and buys one. We are not holding our breath on that one. Washington Basic Health through Molina is probably the worst health insurance you can have and they generally do not pay for any item they consider to be a lasting hardware item like the e-stem, even with a prescription and deemed medically necessary.  Our therapists are going to bat for us but we doubt they will succeed.

Still June 11th will go down as one of our better days. Amber now has been taken off 3 meds ( the Artane the Baclophen and that one that was prescribed by the Dr. at Children's in Seattle. Maybe Tami can cancel the follow-up appointment for him as well since she is no longer taking the med he prescribed?) and placed on one. So now she takes Tegretol for seizures and this new med Imipramine that is supposed to help with depression and Dystonia. Vicodin as needed for pain and Valiun up to 3 times a week if needed for severe Dystonia. She wears the e-stem daily. With school to end tomorrow we are hoping that her stress level will also come down and as a result so will her Dystonia. And to top it off we are $100.00 closer to getting her an e-stem / TENS unit combination of her own.

For those who are wondering what the difference is in the E-stem vs. the TENS this is how it was explained to me.

They work on different frequencies. 

The E-stem is designed to work on blocking nerve impulses to the brain that controls muscle movement. By doing this it reduces the effect of the Dystonia and therefore the amount of pain it causes.

The TENS unit works by blocking the nerves from sending pain signals to the brain. So  It will not stop the contortions of the Dystonia only reduce the pain that Amber feels as a result of the contortions. 

The therapist says the e-stem is what is necessary as we need to keep the Dystonia at bay. Reducing the muscle cramping is preferred medically and by doing this it also reduces pain. But they have a unit that can be switched from an e-stem to a tens with the flip of a switch. This is what we would like to get, as when the pain is too severe that the e-stem cannot control it, Amber can switch it to the TENS setting and find some pain relief until her meds kick in then she can switch it back to an e-stem unit to control the Dystonia. At least that is the objective. Whether it will work that way is unknown until we actually get one and give it a try.

On another note Amber got her braces off on the 10th and can now eat anything she wants. Her first was some chewing gum then ice cream with NUTS and last night popcorn. She is really enjoying being able to eat some foods she couldn't with braces. I now have to try and save enough to get braces for my son by next year or the year after at the latest.

As for the rest of the family. Well our son is doing fine except for a sore throat. Tami is doing OK and is off today taking her mother for an eye surgery appointment for cataracts and I need to get more walking in. I am finding it hard to get away from the walker or crutches. I need to push myself a bit harder to get this broken leg to heal properly. Also I need to get better at what I eat as my blood sugar levels are all over the place. I am diabetic.

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